Explore All Content
-
-
Seen "Shiny Happy People?"
May 31, 2023 // 254 Comments -
Their Day in Court: Part Three
February 22, 2019 // 167 Comments -
Their Day in Court: Part Two
February 22, 2019 // 0 Comments -
Their Day in Court: Part One
February 22, 2019 // 1 Comment -
Statement from Recovering Grace regarding the lawsuit a ...
March 28, 2018 // 188 Comments -
Rethinking the Nativity
December 25, 2016 // 145 Comments -
Bill Gothard’s Powerless Gospel
March 2, 2016 // 259 Comments -
Plaintiffs Amend Lawsuit Against IBLP, Also Sue Bill Go ...
January 10, 2016 // 1311 Comments -
An ATI Education, Final Chapter: Guilty Silence
January 4, 2016 // 168 Comments -
Introducing our IBYC/IBLP Facebook Recovery Group
December 31, 2015 // 24 Comments
-
Plaintiffs Amend Lawsuit Against IBLP, Also Sue Bill Go ...
January 10, 2016 // 1311 Comments -
Charlotte's Story
February 5, 2014 // 605 Comments -
Bill’s Cabin: Uncovering Sin
May 21, 2014 // 477 Comments -
Sacred Grooming, Part Six: A Secretary's Account of Lif ...
January 31, 2014 // 406 Comments -
Trapped in the Shadow of 'God's Anointed': Breaking fre ...
May 5, 2014 // 379 Comments -
Our Response to Bill Gothard’s Statement
April 22, 2014 // 359 Comments -
A Call to Repentance
June 6, 2013 // 353 Comments -
Bill Gothard Issues Public Statement
April 17, 2014 // 341 Comments -
The Agent of Satan
June 4, 2014 // 337 Comments -
Confident Statements Do Not a Solid Argument Make
November 6, 2014 // 330 Comments
-
JM, you write: "The only point I can take issue ...
By kevin, April 15, 2024 -
I enjoyed reading this. I honestly did. Picking ap ...
By JM, April 9, 2024 -
Is it really, Rob? Really? Is it okay to misrepres ...
By JM, April 5, 2024 -
Yes, I am aware Vlad Dracula is a national hero in ...
By rob war, April 4, 2024 -
It's interesting that we think of the Impaler that ...
By JM, April 3, 2024 -
Well, the real Count Dracula of Transylvania was V ...
By Rob war, March 21, 2024 -
It was unsettling to me that you didn't seem to un ...
By JM, March 19, 2024 -
Dracula wouldn't be something I would have used to ...
By rob war, March 13, 2024 -
I don't argue that. I was referring to this author ...
By JM, March 12, 2024 -
I had read "Let me be a Woman" long ago while at c ...
By rob war, March 8, 2024 -
I definitely agree with that take. Again, I haven' ...
By JM, March 8, 2024 -
https://www.patheos.com/blogs/fleshofmyflesh/2024/ ...
By rob war, March 6, 2024 -
I checked it this morning. It's been restored. ...
By JM, February 26, 2024 -
Go to Christianity Today and in their search, type ...
By rob war, February 19, 2024 -
Hey. That link is dead. Not sure what happened, bu ...
By JM, February 19, 2024 -
https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2023/july-aug ...
By rob war, February 16, 2024 -
I'm not sure why it is such a surprise that Eliot' ...
By JM, February 15, 2024 -
Check out the Bare Marriage website. Today's artic ...
By Jeanne, February 14, 2024
-
1984 and ATI
My parents tell me the only reason we weren’t a pilot family in the Advanced Training Institute (ATI) is the fact that I, their first-born, was only three months old when they applied that first year. Like many others who have shared their stories, my parents are wonderful people who sincerely love Jesus and wanted […]
Twelve Characteristics of Fundamentalist Societies that Shelter Sexual Abuse
How could he have fooled so many people, so thoroughly? How did the abuse go on for so many years, unacknowledged? Whenever a leader at this level is ousted or steps down, questions like these come to mind. In the wake of revelations of sexual harassment and abuse pouring in from survivors of Bill Gothard’s […]
Stolen Treasures
EDITOR’S NOTE: This article was originally published on March 11, 2013. A recent article on Recovering Grace, entitled “Moving On,” prompted me to think about the reason it is so difficult to move forward after being victimized by legalism. As I have worked with those hurt by legalism over the years, I have often heard stories about what […]
Silencing the Lambs: Twisting Matthew 18
A Response to Rediscovering a Forgotten Truth The day was Valentine’s Day 1976. Bill Gothard and his brother, Steve, had some surprising confessions to make to the staff of IBYC: they had “defrauded” staff secretaries. In the months prior to this, some of the young ladies had sought out the help of other staff members […]
The GOTHARD Files: The Scandal, 1980
This is part two of a three-part series on the history of the Institute in Basic Life Principles, formerly known as the Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts (IBYC). Please click here to read the Introduction and here to read Part One. Previously we explored events leading up to the IBYC scandal that broke in 1980. […]
IBYC Staff Instructions: How to Answer Questions about Dating
This document was distributed to the staff of Institute in Basic Youth Conflicts (IBYC, the original name of the Institute in Basic Life Principles) to provide them with approved answers to questions they might receive about their dating habits. IBYC staffers were discouraged from dating during their employ for the Institute, and several staff women […]
A Pastor’s Confession
I was the pastor of an ATI church. There. It’s out. I said it. So much within me is shouting, “No! No!” But it’s the truth. Somehow the church I served became an ATI (Advanced Training Institute-influenced) church. It was never my plan or desire, but I was naïve. I thought I could invite Gothard […]
No Condemnation!
I remember the exact moment when I realized that Jesus loved me—and LIKED me—ALL the time, not just when I had performed correctly. My life seemed like it was falling apart around me. I was no longer able to control everything and come across as a “godly” person. I started having panic attacks, and because […]
Life Focus: The Price of a White Polo
I could share countless stories of spiritual, physical, and mental abuse from my time spent in the Life Focus program. But one experience that stands out in my mind was when I was confined to the Prayer Room during Life Focus IV. The “scandal” that began a witch hunt started with a young lady from […]