Ask any church leader who has come into contact with Gothard followers, and far too often you will hear about stories of divisions caused within churches, rather than people who are known for their love or unity.
Many instances of division can be traced directly back to the teachings of Bill Gothard through the Institute in Basic Life Principles, and his heavy emphasis on “Godly standards.” There is nothing wrong in and of itself with having Godly standards–after all, we are called to be holy and pursue holiness in our lives. However, there is something wrong when someone creates extra-biblical rules that they claim as “God’s standards” and enforce them on other believers. These extra-biblical “standards,” which are taught by Gothard with the authority of biblical doctrine, are referred to in Scripture as “commandments of men,” not standards of God. [1]
The Apostle Paul also referred to these teachings in the book of Colossians as “basic principles of the world” [Ironically, the only time the term “basic principles” is used in Scripture, it’s used to speak about false teachings and doctrines of men]:
“Since you died with Christ to the basic principles of this world, why, as though you still belonged to it, do you submit to its rules: “Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!”? These are all destined to perish with use, because they are based on human commands and teachings. Such regulations indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.” [2]
These human commands and teachings essentially create ranks within Christianity that Christ has not sanctioned. The top rank, who are seen by themselves as the more spiritual Christians, hold to rigorous teachings on things such as fasting, abstaining from certain foods, and avoiding certain ungodly people; and the lower rank are viewed as inferior Christians, who either can’t or won’t keep up with the same “standards of holiness.”
So what does one do when encountering a believer with lower standards? Bill Gothard does not just imply confrontation, but he flat-out encourages it:
“If you consistently fail to prayerfully and lovingly confront friends who violate Godly standards, you can be sure that you have a fearful heart. Here are some examples of such violations: Stealing the heart of a girl and disregarding her father; Listening to sensual, worldly music that is contrary to God’s nature; Visiting places of worldly amusement (e.g., theaters);….Reading sensual books or magazines–including romance novels.”
Gothard goes on to explain several reasons why people might be tempted to not confront others who violate these “Godly standards”:
“Perhaps you are afraid to expose their sin because you are doing the same things, which are reinforced when you keep company with them. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners” (I Corinthians 15:33). “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed” (Proverbs 13:20).” [3]
So basically, Gothard is saying that you MUST confront someone who violates his criteria for Godly standards, and anyone who disagrees with these humanly-imposed standards is probably also corrupted by sin, and/or is a companion of fools who will be destroyed. While Scripture does teach the necessity of confronting sin, it is never clearly taught in Scripture that dating a girl without her father’s prior approval is equivalent to stealing, or that listening to worldly music and reading romance novels are automatically sins against God. But Gothard takes these personal convictions and elevates them to a Scriptural standard that ALL believers should follow, encouraging confrontation when these extra-biblical rules are not lived out in fellow believers’ lives.
Is it any wonder that many people who sit under these teachings create divisions within the body of Christ? If other believers don’t embrace the same standards, they are often shunned for having lower standards and not submitting to “God’s best.” This not only creates rifts in personal relationships, but within local churches as well, as the standards over music, dress, courtship, child-rearing, educational decisions, Bible translations, and more are seen as worthy enough to create division within the church, often resulting in attempts to fire a pastor or expel a fellow brother from fellowship over non-conformity to these “standards.”
Former Advanced Training Institute (ATI) students can relate countless stories of the collateral damage done to churches, youth groups, and families by the efforts of well-meaning Gothardites in their zeal to spread these higher standards. Here are just three examples I know of personally:
–One ATI student’s parents led the praise and worship at their church. They laid down the law about using hymns only, as opposed to choruses and anything with a “rock beat.” It turned into a huge ordeal and the church split in half.
–Another student’s family caused a church to split over wanting to teach Gothard’s materials in the adult Sunday school class. After the Senior Pastor expressed concern, they took five like-minded families and started their own church the next Sunday.
–In yet another student’s story, the actions of another family attempting to spread Gothard’s teachings in their church led to the resignation of the associate pastor, the departure of the problematic ATI father/family, and finally the resignation of the senior pastor as the church reeled from a split.
While many ATI families are NOT like this, many students recount the constant church-hopping they were subjected to throughout their growing-up years, as their parents continually looked for the “perfect church” with similar teaching and music standards. They lament the lack of spiritual roots they were able to develop because their families were constantly “on the move” from church to church. Fine-tuned, extra-biblical standards too often create a misguided rationale for breaking fellowship, and the resulting strife often follows a person or family from church to church.
The early church encountered similar standard-related strife. In Galatians 2:11-21, Paul opposed Peter to his face because he had bought into the wrong “standard.” Peter believed that both Jews and Gentiles were equal in Christ, but in a moment of weakness, he was swayed by the Judaizers in separating themselves from their fellow brothers in Christ who did not share the same “high standards” of circumcision and dietary laws as they did. The Judaizers knew that this method of ranking Christian commitment and shunning believers who didn’t measure up to their own standards was both powerful and effective, and they were able to use it to sway many to their side. Paul warned, “Those people are zealous to win you over, but for no good. What they want is to alienate you from us, so that you may be zealous for them.” [4]
This type of alienation is unbiblical at best. Any form of shunning fellow believers with “lower standards” flies in the very face of the gospel, which makes all equal before God through faith in Christ. Philip Graham Ryken puts it this way, “We must have fellowship with anyone and everyone who is in fellowship with God through faith in Jesus Christ. If we refuse to have fellowship with them, then our actions deny the gospel. We are making a distinction that God himself does not make. We are adding some qualification to the only thing God requires, which is faith in Jesus Christ.” [5]
Scripture calls us to unity within the body of Christ, not to unnecessary divisions based on human commands and teachings. There is never any justification for alienating other believers based on lower standards. As believers, we are called to love each other and work for the peace of the church. “Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to one hope when you were called—one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.” [6]
This is not to suggest that there are not issues worth fighting for in the church, or genuine sin that should not be confronted. Good Christians will often disagree on personal convictions and standards, and sometimes strongly. But love should always be our highest rule. Love is what we should be known for. If we are worried about others who do not hold to our own standards of godliness, let us first examine our own path to make sure we are not following the commandments of men. Then let us demonstrate the truth with love, not through shunning or alienation.
FOOTNOTES:
1. “These people draw near to me with their mouth, and honor me with their lips, but their heart is far from me. And in vain they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.” (Matthew 15:8-9)
2. Colossians 2:20-23
3. Journey to the Heart booklet (IBLP Publications), 18
4. Galatians 4:17
5. Philip Graham Ryken, Galatians (P&R Publishing, 2005), 60
6. Ephesians 4:3-6
Well-written article.
Unfortunately, I can relate to this story all to well. My family was a part of a large church that had several families affiliated with IBLP and/or ATI. When the Pastor and Associate Pastor wouldn't buy into all of the legalistic teachings (basic principles of do this or don't do that) these families all began to leave the church quickly and join another. Three of the families were on the church staff. My family was one of them. We were actually quite naive (being pretty new to Bill's false doctrines) in the beginning and couldn't understand why all of these families believed it was necessary to leave the church. We were upset to see all of them leave as well as the heartbreak and division that it caused the church. And, our support system was gone. The next several years proved to be quite difficult for us. Sadly, we did eventually leave that church too.
I believe Satan just loves to see all of this division. We get sidetracked from our real purpose in life and for the church. All our fightings and quarrels, etc. only further help Satan achieve his goal of destroying unity in the body of Christ and prohibit the furtherance of the gospel which leads to salvation.
Glad you stated this: "This is not to suggest that there are not issues worth fighting for in the church, or genuine sin that should not be confronted. Good Christians will often disagree on personal convictions and standards, and sometimes strongly. But love should always be our highest rule. Love is what we should be known for."
love colossians 2:20-23. wish I'd read it earlier...and studied it. I don't think Bill was this way earlier, suggesting confrontation. I never remember hearing it. I think the power has warped him. Too many people following him has given him the permission to hurt others. He's long needed someone in his life to speak truth, and if they did, he didn't listen. Even when a pastor sat in his office telling him of the woes of following his principles, he fell asleep on him. That's really it, he's fallen asleep as to the REAL results of this destructive teaching. Now we are totally reprogramming, thank God!!!
I was on staff at HQ when IBLP was getting ready to release the book, "How to Conquer the Addiction of Rock Music." I vividly remember him saying, this book is going to draw a line in the sand for churches. At the time, I vigorously nodded my head in agreement, and now I just look back ashamed. So much division over an issue that really came down to one's opinion.
At HQ in Oak Brook, I remember a conversation where two guys were talking in admiring terms about some big cheese at HQ who always wore ties but only "conservative" ones. Conservative ties were defined as ties with dots or stripes only. The implication was clearly being drawn that this "disciplined" choice in ties reflected spiritual maturity. It sounds silly now but that was a part of the climate.
The first time I ever remember reading about "touch not, taste not, handle not" in Col 2 was after I was out of ATIA. One of the first things that sprang to mind when I read it was that conversation about the ties and I realized, hey - Gothard's system involves boasting about doing the very thing these verses say not to do, that is, relying on the human commands of "touch not, taste not, handle not" to measure or change the heart. It's exactly 180 degrees around from Scripture.
Very well written!!! Colossians 2 says it all. Keep up the good work contenting for truth...
This is not to suggest that there are not issues worth fighting for in the church, or genuine sin that should not be confronted. Good Christians will often disagree on personal convictions and standards, and sometimes strongly. But love should always be our highest rule. Love is what we should be known for. If we are worried about others who do not hold to our own standards of godliness, let us first examine our own path to make sure we are not following the commandments of men. Then let us demonstrate the truth with love, not through shunning or alienation.
I appreciate how you summarized your article! God does call a believer to a higher, holy standard. And *HIS* words & guidelines ARE worth living out! It's been a challenging journey, to say the least, over the past few years to take a look at my faith & values and determine 1) what part of that is man-indoctrination, and 2) choosing to look for biblical truth & stand strong for what God says, even when *good* Christians won't.
Your quote from Journey to the Heart brought back very sad memories. My daughter had a dearest friend whose family was steeped in ATI/IBLP. They were so close and yet they were finally torn apart by the young woman's trip to Journey to the Heart. My daughter was not up to the standards of Mr. Gothard and this family (though she was a homeschooled christian). These parents and their daughter deeply hurt my daughter. I work daily to forgive them and help my daughter to do the same. I know they are deceived. It is still hard to stand by and watch adults be so mean and ungodly to children.
We have several other gothardites in our church and they have caused more than one family to leave.
“These people draw near to me with their mouth, and honor me with their lips, but their heart is far from me. And in vain they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.” (Matthew 15:8-9)
I am sorry that you all had such bad encounters with ATI - my family greatly benefited from our involvement with them. We were never "Gothardites" but we were encouraged to study God's word more, apply the full council of God's word to our lives and out of our love for God, pursue holiness. My parents were good at gleaning what was good from his material and balancing out any extreme teachings.
There are a lot of "extreme" Christian leaders out there - The Pearls with No Greater Joy or Doug Philips with "Vision Forum" - and I love the way they make me think - they can all challenge me to see God's word in a new way and make me search it out further to know why I believe what I believe.
You have to admit, it is way to easy to accept a worldly way of thinking to slide in - in regards to media, clothing, values, relationships, use of time, etc.
These men are concerned that we challenge the "norm" of our culture to see if our habitual way of thinking or acting is stunting our Christian growth. It is way too easy to let go of standards in the name of freedom and love...the difficulty comes in standing for anything in the name of freedom, love and holiness.
All of this to say, I personally know a lot of people who have been helped by Gothard's teachings because there is a lot of truth in what he is saying, but I agree that it could also be taken out of balance if he is your single authority on God's word.
Stacie, our growth as Christians is not related to the externals of our life. Our growth as Christians is related to our focus on God and Christ and His gospel. The bottom line is that what many of the teachers you mention propose is extra-biblical and not what God intended at all.
Allow me a simple question, if God is really God, do you not think him able to address all of the issues He wanted us to be concerned with in the confines of 66 books? And in those books, His focus is on His redemption of a people to Himself, not about outward standards of dress, music, TV, etc. Our focus should be on Christ and the gospel, not conformity to man-made external rules.
Someone summed up the whole matter very concisely: "What's good in Gothard's teachings is not unique, and what's unique in Gothard's teachings is not good.
Great article. You write with such wisdom and balance! Praise God for enabling you with such a gift for communication. Thanks.
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